That girl is very childish, indeed, i think you shouldn't mix her up with your homosexual growth. Don't come out if it's not really necessary. And... well, if running away from her doesn't work... make her feel angry with you, any way you can, make her forget you by making her feel really angry, what else could you do? you've already told her in a correct way you dont like her
(WOW, i became 'immortal')
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That's why you DONT have to come out rite know, the risk is high. I didn't mean to hurt her, but to make her angry, or at least discouraged with you, to make her realize of something she may not like about yourself, to regret her feelings naturally.
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well i just talked to her again right now and i said that i didnt want everything to be akward or wierd or anything, and she said that that was understandable. she also said that if she can't get a ride to the game then she has to go with her mom to go do something. she said that she might just tell her mom she got a ride and then walk to the game so i don't know. i've heard that shes a chronic liar so all of these things might be lies. the situation may be under control for now... hopefully.
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OKS! luck for next time then
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well i just got in a fight with he friend that caused all this and i told her i wasn't going to talk to her until hannah stopped liking me. (hannah's the girl that likes me)
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That chick needs to understand that even if you were straight, that doesn't automatically mean that you'll like every girl that you meet. She thinks that just because she likes you so much, that eventually you'll come to like her. I dont' think it's a good idea for you to 'come out' since you don't seem to be comfortable with that, and you don't want that to affect your remaining years in school (which is understandable).
Simply explain to her that you'd just like to be her friend, nothing more. If she can't accept that, she needs to be gone! From the sound of her though, I wouldn't even want to be her friend.
If she doesn't want to accept what you've already told her, tell her that it's a bit rude to keep pushing it, and that if she wants to even be just friends with you, she's going to have to stop.
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omg everyone i did it, and i was a nervous wreck and it only took me like 2 hours. and i'm still nervous, but she took it well, although she started crying for some reason. well i think everthing is sorted out, and my friend swore to tell no one and i trust her so everything is good. thanks everyone.
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it's just one of those things that you have to get over and done with... you will feel much better if you at least come out to either of your parrents. or maby one of your friends that you know for sure can always keep a secret!
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ready, i think...
ask anybody (besides my brothers) it's just not in me at al to hurt someones feeling unless i really really have to besides who knows what she'd do if i told her she was ugly. she might spread a rumor that i'm gay which, although is true, would most likely affect my remaining 5 years of school.
congratulations!!! 
