First let me start off by saying thanks for telling all of us your story, its takes a lot of courage to say such a thing. Honesty is a must in a relationship that is suppose to last a life time. If there's no honesty in a relationship you'll find yourself doubting your partners every word. The best thing to do is to come clean and tell her the real answers to the questions she asked you. If she has a problem with it (which she might) then shell probably realize that you both are to young to make a lifetime commitment. But you also need to express to her your feelings towards guys and the lack of feelings you have towards ladies. Sometimes in life you are going to experience such occurrences like this, but keep in mind this only makes us stronger. I hope all turns out well.
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I agree with Marshy, entirely, and the only reason I am actually saying anything (which is irrelevant) is to say to Jakem, that his post is nicely written.
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First off welcome to GS and this waaaaaay much better than that restrictive other forum. Dude, I saw this same exact thread lurking on the old gay forum I used to post on... it's the same exact thread. I think you should tell her the truth. It's the best thing to do. Good luck with it!
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At first I thought of writting a lie; however, since we are talking about truths, I would have to agree with Marshlander. On another note, try to not put the "likes" and wants of your girlfriend above yours, they just create problems. A relationship is above two individuals being happy, you give the impression of you not being so happy. But, hey it your decision, so think of the future....
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