communication problems

[hellocake]

me n my 'first love' hav always got on, rly well - n although we broke up, we stayed friends. somethings changed recently and nebody who knows me can tell u sometimes my humour can be a bit near th mark, sarcastic you know but my friends get it and my ex did too. in this politically-correct-obsessed age everythigs dangerous! but hey, we made each other laugh. bt lately hes gotten more and more aggressive, his friends and my friends hav noticed it but havent said nethin.

thers a communication blockade been put between us by something cos he takes my sort of jks too seriously and th other day he jus went mad tellin him i make him angry n all this stuff.but his language has been foul n thers no build up to his rages. he says i manipulate people n then goes tellin me he lied bout kissin a guy whilst we were goin out to try n trip me up! little twisted, n recently, after this big argument weve had, we hadnt spoken n id jus left it. then he goes textin me sayin 'this is bliss, without u im happy' at about 1 in th morning. then why am i on his mind n why is he textin me? i just dnt really understand and ideas to go about makin this better wud be appreciated!! cos i believe no friend is worth losing, really. i just wud like, if nethin, to try n help him calm down n be th fun lovin guy he used to be:frown: