05-06-2008, 04:33 PM
I was at this guys house the other day and we were drinking. And I was sick in his toilet... but he came in and hugged me and rubbed my back and was going "don't worry it's ok" and then he kissed my neck. And then we wen't to his sitting room and he started to hold my hand and he hugged me and then I had to go. And when I went to leave he hugged me again and I moved in and kissed him..
The he asked me to stay with him overnight, not to have sex just so he wasn't alone, but I couldn't so I had to leave. He phoned me and started crying and asked me to come back and I told him I couldn't and he said he was in love with me. And I told him to phone me the next day so we could talk about it cause I felt the same way.
But the next5 day he texted me and asked me to forget everything I said and when I asked if he meant it he replied "I rly dnt knw". And then he just sorta avoided the question again and again and doesn't want to talk about it. I managed to get him in a corner bout it once and he never answered he just asked why I cared so much.
So I don't know what to do now. Some of my friends think he's just shy/embarrassed and think I should tell him how I feel while he's sober, but other's think he's just toying with me and was only using me to make himself feel better about his "miserable life". And I really want to tell him but I'm worried that if I do he'll tell me it was just the drink, and it'll ruin our friendship. But at the same time I'm worried that if he does like me and I leave it to late he might find someone else...
What should I do?
The he asked me to stay with him overnight, not to have sex just so he wasn't alone, but I couldn't so I had to leave. He phoned me and started crying and asked me to come back and I told him I couldn't and he said he was in love with me. And I told him to phone me the next day so we could talk about it cause I felt the same way.
But the next5 day he texted me and asked me to forget everything I said and when I asked if he meant it he replied "I rly dnt knw". And then he just sorta avoided the question again and again and doesn't want to talk about it. I managed to get him in a corner bout it once and he never answered he just asked why I cared so much.
So I don't know what to do now. Some of my friends think he's just shy/embarrassed and think I should tell him how I feel while he's sober, but other's think he's just toying with me and was only using me to make himself feel better about his "miserable life". And I really want to tell him but I'm worried that if I do he'll tell me it was just the drink, and it'll ruin our friendship. But at the same time I'm worried that if he does like me and I leave it to late he might find someone else...
What should I do?