So I have a bit of a dilemma on my hands here guys...

[The Virgin]

well, you can do promiscous sex if that's what you want. but make sure in the long run, you are not corrupted by it. cause the tendency is if you focus too much on the sexual side of your sexuality, you long for something deeper than.

[fredv3b]

He's the first guy who I'd consider having a relationship with but I'd just feel bad because I'm not sure if anything long-term could happen between us since I still like girls too. Wouldn't that be unfair to him? I'm not sure...I'm still in this confused experimental stage of my life and I wouldn't want to lead him on or anything...

So long as you were honest with him about not being sure if it could lead to something long-term then I don't think it would be unfair on him.

[SrChulo]

If you go into it worrying as much as you are, your performance anxiety might prevent you from being able to get it up. You really need to convince yourself that you will be fine, and your innate instincts will show you how to thrust just fine.

Make sure you calm yourself down if you are getting nervous. Just do a lot of foreplay before exposing your member. haha. then you're sure to be hard and ready to go.

WEAR A CONDOM obviously.

[tintin]

I agree!! Don't get nervous, and try not to think too hard about it . Just enjoy yourself, and he'll enjoy it too. To be dominant, you just gotta be confident!!

[dubed]

The Virgin, ehh I wouldn't call it promiscuous sex per se...more like casual sex haha I'm no man-whore...well, not anymore that is. But truth be told, this guy is actually the first guy I've come across who's actually gotten me to consider something more than just casual sex and it kind of freaks me out a bit because I told myself from the get-go that my gay experimentation would never amount to anything beyond being purely physical. It's hard to choose just one when I'm juggling so many options :/ fred3vb, you're right...my best bet would be to be completely honest with him and 'pase lo que pase'.
SrChulo and tintin, yes, as for the first guy, I'll make sure to not let my nervousness get the best of me. Foreplay usually does the trick quite nicely haha. My first time, I was drunk so I obviously wasn't thinking about it much and apparently I was a natural. Hmm well there's a thought...maybe I should have a few drinks beforehand :biggrin: lol nah because then it'd make fumbling around in the car even more awkward. Any tips for having sex in cars guys? I've waited around long enough and I'm STRONGLY considering it now...

[The Virgin]

car sex advise/tips? well..hmm.... don't let the cops caught you? hehe

[dubed]

haha yeah that was another one of my concerns (although not a main one). Can't say I've ever had any run-in's with the law. What can cops do though if you're in your own car and you're both legal consenting adults? Can they really punish you with a misdemeanor? (Talking about US laws here)

[The Virgin]

i'm not sure but here in my country, i've heard that one of my friends caught by the police cause they were having sex inside his car in the middle of the road and they were about to take them to the police station for indecent public acts, they just bribe the policemen and went away...

[dubed]

Hmm yeah I could see the police doing something similar to that here too. I live in a gated community though, so would that still count as the public haha? Well, I told you guys that I'd keep you updated so here it goes. I talked to the guy who's wanting something more than a physical relationship and, suffice to say, he didn't take the news so well. He got angry and started accusing me a being a man-whore and such. And here I thought he'd appreciate my honesty! He's a great guy but I'm not sure if he wants anything to do with me anymore after our chat. Nothing has happened yet between me and the hot Abercrombie guy (for brevity's and anonymity's sake, we'll call him Fitch and the other guy Casanova). Fitch and I talk occasionally but I doubt anything is going to happen any time soon which is unfortunate because, at the risk of sounding like a 'man-whore', I really want to hook up with this guy! There are a couple of other guys in the picture but they're not really worth mentioning. From what I've told you guys throughout my posts would you all say that I have 'man-whore'-like tendencies like Casanova thinks? Maybe I should tone it down a little? Eh I'm just not sure I'm ready to be in a serious relationship right now since I'm young and in college....especially with a guy.

[The Virgin]

There's nothing wrong with being a man-whore.......hehe...... i love being one....