Does Gay Sex have a purpose?

[toomuch45]

I know what you mean. I enjoy 'sex' but some of the most intimate relationships and encounters of mine (short as they were) involved nothing but frottage. I think it's so much more intimate than sex because you face each other, among other things.

For the people who don't know, to 'frot' basically means penis rubbing against penis...but it's much more than that for intimate partners.

oohhhh ive did that before with a partner and i enjoyed it and would love to do that again someday

[SlipknotRlZZ]

Sex in general has the purpose of...giving pleasure and maybe helping one express his feelings. One way or another, slut or no slut, for everybody sex has a purpose as long as their life has some sort of a purpose.

[Ultra]

I know what you mean. I enjoy 'sex' but some of the most intimate relationships and encounters of mine (short as they were) involved nothing but frottage. I think it's so much more intimate than sex because you face each other, among other things.

For the people who don't know, to 'frot' basically means penis rubbing against penis...but it's much more than that for intimate partners.

Yup, definitely much more. I will sadly never have the opportunity to frot anyone. That's okay, I can live without sex.

[simon]

Yeah, I figured you wouldn't know what I was talking about. Google "frot" someday.

no thanks,nice reply tho Yosuke was kind enough to say what it was.

[East]

Gay Sex has had an integral purpose for me....I had to submit to my mother and father who were both mentally ill.....I had a self destructive brain stemming from my life experience and to some degree I still do because both of my parents made me their parent which basically cost me my identity....

I have practiced dominance and submission (not to be confused with S&M) to help me overcome the brainwashing and conditioning I had in my younger years...there is a freedom for me knowing that I willingly submitted my will to another person.....it counteracts a lifetime of it being forced on me and I credit sex with restoring my brain and soul to what it might have been had I not been subjected to these two people who should have never reproduced...

SO THERE...gay sex has had a great purpose in my life:biggrin:

[Yosuke]

oohhhh ive did that before with a partner and i enjoyed it and would love to do that again someday

Yes...it really is an enjoyable experience, I'd like to as well...someday being the keyword. Lol I remember the days when I was actually with someone. And by 'the days' I mean well over a year. Hooray for dry spells lol!

[Woof]

Gay sex is just that. Hot, Kinky, and Explosive!

[Mr. Not So Lonely]

in answer to the question is YES

[Mew]

For Gays there is:

Fastfood (McDonalds style.....bushes, parks so on....)

Homemade cooking (home with somebody You claim to love, and You love...)

Gourmet mile: when You meet someone so hot and wonderful...once in your lifetime and you try to do that every now and then........

[azulai]

Well, the two major hormones released during sex are oxytocin and vasopressin. High levels of testosterone decrease the effects of vasopressin, but both males and females produce oxytocin during kissing, cuddling and sex. Oxytocin is called the “cuddle chemical,” or “love hormone.” (Interestingly, they are doing studies in using it in the treatment of autism.)

Anyway, both of these hormones promote “pair bonding.” So, sex and emotional attachment do have a scientific link.

Oxytocin, in particular, helps us feel calm and more content; reduces stress and anxiety; lowers blood pressure and believe it or not, it increases feelings of generosity, empathy and trust. So there are physical and emotional health benefits to sex, not just pleasure.

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As I was thinking about this I couldn't help but wonder: yes, we know the result of m/f sex can be reproduction. And, the production of “pair bonding” is then thought to be all about providing an environment for the child rearing, blah, blah, blah and oxytocin is produced during childbirth—stimulates lactation and promotes mother-child bonding. BUT, what if nature has more to it? I mean, WHY would this hormone promote empathy and generosity? The hormone is produced whether you masturbate, or the sex is m/m, f/f or m/f. Is the empathy and generosity person specific? Or is it just in general? Maybe if it’s more for a particular person, then that’s “love?” IDK, just kind of thinking out loud. But, what if nature also uses sex as increasing empathy and generosity for all interactions, then it serves the species as a whole because it increases a group’s chance of survival. So, sex wouldn’t just be about reproduction, but also the production of hormones that give us behavioral traits needed to ensure we survive??? Would we survive without empathy? Can we survive without generosity? This is really stupid, huh? :redface: