03-22-2011, 05:12 AM
This is sort of an odd situation, and slightly difficult to explain as well. I'll do my best to explain though.
I'm a loner. I don't like being around people. It's as simple as that. For this reason, I only have a few friends that I surround myself with.
Also, I haven't felt anything resembling love for another man for a long, long time. I think it's because I don't like being social with other people, and because I'm just afraid of being hurt like I was last time.
But here's the thing: I get really depressed every now and again, and just need to be around other people. This is odd when you take a look at what I just typed, and knowing that I was actually so depressed at one point that I attempted to take my life just makes it that much more odd. But anyways, at this point, I'll try to surround myself with some friends, and I get really clingy for a short period of time. Afterwards, I distance myself away from these people again, and they start getting worried over me because I become this reclusive hermit.
So, I guess my question is: How do I break my shell? I need to know how to better acquaint myself with more...normal people, I suppose. Any advice would be appreciated, I don't want to be a complete loser forever.
EDIT: I just re-read this post, and realized that there's a bit of rambling going on here. Not going to change anything, but I'll apologize for it. I'm really tired right now and can't be arsed into revising this.
I'm a loner. I don't like being around people. It's as simple as that. For this reason, I only have a few friends that I surround myself with.
Also, I haven't felt anything resembling love for another man for a long, long time. I think it's because I don't like being social with other people, and because I'm just afraid of being hurt like I was last time.
But here's the thing: I get really depressed every now and again, and just need to be around other people. This is odd when you take a look at what I just typed, and knowing that I was actually so depressed at one point that I attempted to take my life just makes it that much more odd. But anyways, at this point, I'll try to surround myself with some friends, and I get really clingy for a short period of time. Afterwards, I distance myself away from these people again, and they start getting worried over me because I become this reclusive hermit.
So, I guess my question is: How do I break my shell? I need to know how to better acquaint myself with more...normal people, I suppose. Any advice would be appreciated, I don't want to be a complete loser forever.
EDIT: I just re-read this post, and realized that there's a bit of rambling going on here. Not going to change anything, but I'll apologize for it. I'm really tired right now and can't be arsed into revising this.