03-31-2011, 02:17 AM
I don't know if he's training you, but I think he might be struggling with a mental illness, perhaps something with a bit of paranoia/esteem issues. (please note that I'm not at all a psychologist, just observant of behaviour but I could be wrong). He seems to have really taken things personally when you've said things to distance yourself, or joked about things like 'breaking up' after the video game. It's hard to get a gage of what his feelings are for you, maybe he is straight, but he definitely doesn't want to lose you and isn't it handling his fears of losing you well.
Unfortunately, it can be hard to suggest to someone that perhaps they should get checked out... they might get really offended. You may need to make a tough choice of do you indeed run as East suggested, and know that though it's hard, none of how he's acted is your fault and it's what's probably best for your own sanity.. or do you try to heal wounds, realizing that you'll need to be a little more careful about what you say etc. around him?
Good luck whatever you decide
Unfortunately, it can be hard to suggest to someone that perhaps they should get checked out... they might get really offended. You may need to make a tough choice of do you indeed run as East suggested, and know that though it's hard, none of how he's acted is your fault and it's what's probably best for your own sanity.. or do you try to heal wounds, realizing that you'll need to be a little more careful about what you say etc. around him?
Good luck whatever you decide
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