I am being name called, gay fuck, gay, fagot, you name it by this guy who claims to be heterosexual, yet he knows all the gay words in the world. I tried every possible way to stop him from calling me these names but he would not.
He has this thing about gay people, not sure if he is fascinated by it or says these things to be little me or he is projecting his feelings and his own confusion about his sexuality.
I given up explaining if i am gay or straight to him, either way i tried he keeps calling me names.
Also wondering if a bi or straight guy like him would have sex with a gay person, even though he says he would not and calls us all these names?
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It is called self-lothing and is very dangerous.
Some people internalise it. Others, like this person, are externalising it.
He might have gay sex but will likely rationalise it to himself. Some think that so long as they are not the recipient then its okay, they are not really gay.
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However hot he is or into you he seems or nice/fun he is to talk to otherwise, it's not worth being called names. If you need to justify his behaviour to justify why you'd keep talking with him, it's not worth it.
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Hi there,
If his throwing homophobic abuse at you contact your local police station and request they intervine... Regardless of age theyt are duty bound to protect the public at any cost...
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im thinking that he really likes you but hes afraid to come out the closet but if you do feel threatened
then do what zeon says
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thank you all for your comments. He has asked me to stay over for a few weeks at his place. He lives in a different country, so i am going there to visit family and he said i can stay over. Do you think he would try something on me? or have me try something on him, that way he is receiving it and is not doing the act?
He loves to talk about gay things, he showed me a gay porno once and he just goes on and on about up the ass and that I am gay and that once a gay guy had sex with me.
Is he planning to have me make a move on him?
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also once i made up a story about this guy who wanted to kiss me, i txt message him, he never usually responds with txt messages because of long distance cost, but he send a few showing his anger and that he would punch the guy out for me.
Seemed very protective of me about this whole gay thing. It is starting to make me believe that he has strong feelings for me. I also am a bit worried about my stay, not that he can hurt me but he might have me do things to him which would be forced on me.
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If his giving you abuse then dont you dare go to his place it could be leading you onto false pretences and be a way to lure you into his den to give ya a pasting... If you do go along with it and go brace yourself for the fact you may come out in a body bag i would strongly advise not going there... we wouldnt want to loose a member or see someone hurt
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why would you say such a scary thing. I have his address, phone number, his family comes from a wealthy family with good upbringing, the only reason why i see him calling me names is that he is 20 and young. Also It was mutually agreed that i visit him. However he even said that age does not make any difference. He also said he has no problem with gay people.
Lately he even made an audio video of my arrival to his country and how two friends from different parts of the world meet. I truly think he does not have any bad intentions. But i can see why you would think he had bad thoughts. Anyways what troubles me most is the name calling, not sure what to do, i am only there 2 weeks and can put up with it, i do not have any other place to stay and will cost me a fortune neither i can spend all my days at my family.
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he will not stop
