i want to experiment and want to do it with a friend but...

[jmak805]

im not sure how to get to that part because i have no idea if hes willing to. how do i find out without letting him know im bi

[OrphanPip]

It's kind of hard to keep that a secret once his penis is in your mouth. :p

[jmak805]

i just mean finding out if hes willling i dont mean do that stuff with with him and still without him knowing haha

[Kiri]

Are you afraid he's homophobic? If you're sure he's not you could just tell him you're bi which might ease him into telling his sexuality. Unless you already know he's gay/bi/whatever. If so, I think you should ask what his type is (that could also work if you don't know his sexuality.)

[SlipknotRlZZ]

Well, just...think about it first, has he ever shown any signs he might be Bi? And then, Kiri's right, if you don't think he's homophobic or that he's gonna tell, just tell him you are bi. Also, try being a little more affectionate with him, like let your hand linger on his shoulder or something, give him more hugs and stuff....but not too much, and then judge by his reaction whether he might be interested. :]