Why am I dyeing for sex?

[Anonymous]

You are right, but it feels alittle wrong to me to have a one night stand though, I could of meet a guy the other day for sex but I wimp out at the last minute.

hmmmm its the first time I have said I'm happy being who I am infect even though I'm saying this Anonymously.

[Anonymous]

ARE indeed gay? An anxiety about being able to perform?

Maybe what you said there might hit it on the head.

[sweetlad2010]

Right it me dont think you can help me if with adisve if you not know the background of the person.

The book you told me to read I think is happy a great deal.... thanks PA...

[princealbertofb]

Being happy about it is a good start, Anonymous. Hopefully, with time you'll decide not be to anonymous anymore. Actually there's nothing to stop you being a full fledged member with a handle and all, we needn't know your real name, as long as we get to call and know you by a name that you give yourself. I think it's probably daunting to have to go for sex with some unknown guy. It is a very intimate act, somehow. I know I'd feel very estranged from the whole process. I've only ever had sex with people I knew before. That's my story. Random sex with random people does not interest me. That's why I think it would be best for you to start meeting people, maybe 'dating' people... then see where that leads you. It's a normal process.

[sweetlad2010]

Being happy about it is a good start, Anonymous. Hopefully, with time you'll decide not be to anonymous anymore. Actually there's nothing to stop you being a full fledged member with a handle and all, we needn't know your real name, as long as we get to call and know you by a name that you give yourself. I think it's probably daunting to have to go for sex with some unknown guy. It is a very intimate act, somehow. I know I'd feel very estranged from the whole process. I've only ever had sex with people I knew before. That's my story. Random sex with random people does not interest me. That's why I think it would be best for you to start meeting people, maybe 'dating' people... then see where that leads you. It's a normal process.

[sweetlad2010]

The desire is starting to get me down though!!

[worknlife]

I have gone around the block with a random....or 2...maybe it was 3 LOL. As long as your safe I dont see anything wrong with it. Watch out for psyco's and do it the safe way and you should be fine mile:

[sweetlad2010]

I think one of the reason sex scares me is what happened to me as a kid, did that make the things I like doing sexualy.

I mean the role I like to have during sex, with me it being submsive and a bottom.

Thats where it scares me really. I have used my disablity to hide that worry from people.

[princealbertofb]

Time for a loving, caring relationship with someone who loves you and that you can trust then... make it happen, Sweets. mile:

[sweetlad2010]

hmmmmm well just say there are a few suiters atm lol xx