You are right, but it feels alittle wrong to me to have a one night stand though, I could of meet a guy the other day for sex but I wimp out at the last minute.
hmmmm its the first time I have said I'm happy being who I am infect even though I'm saying this Anonymously.
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Right it me dont think you can help me if with adisve if you not know the background of the person.
The book you told me to read I think is happy a great deal.... thanks PA...
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Being happy about it is a good start, Anonymous. Hopefully, with time you'll decide not be to anonymous anymore. Actually there's nothing to stop you being a full fledged member with a handle and all, we needn't know your real name, as long as we get to call and know you by a name that you give yourself. I think it's probably daunting to have to go for sex with some unknown guy. It is a very intimate act, somehow. I know I'd feel very estranged from the whole process. I've only ever had sex with people I knew before. That's my story. Random sex with random people does not interest me. That's why I think it would be best for you to start meeting people, maybe 'dating' people... then see where that leads you. It's a normal process.
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The desire is starting to get me down though!!
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I think one of the reason sex scares me is what happened to me as a kid, did that make the things I like doing sexualy.
I mean the role I like to have during sex, with me it being submsive and a bottom.
Thats where it scares me really. I have used my disablity to hide that worry from people.
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hmmmmm well just say there are a few suiters atm lol xx
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