11-02-2007, 11:29 PM
Hokay, I'm going to divulge my theory on the three bands of sexual intercourse. I developed this idea a while back, and it's obviously open for comment and development, but this is how I see it.
BROADLY-SPEAKING there are three main ways of engaging in sexual congress with somebody ... you can either :-
1) Have sex with them - which is what I consider most casual fumbles, one-night stands and sexual flings engaged in which we're growing and developing, from teenage shags to people throwing caution to the wind for a night of pleasure. There is an emotional side to it, but it's oftentimes quite selfish or naïve, insofar as it's perhaps sometimes kinda inexperienced;
2) F*ck them - which is a purely primal and physical type of sexual intercourse where the emphasis is almost solely on the physical pleasure of the act, pretty much at the expense of the emotional and intimate side of it ... people that engage in heavy fetish-related sexual play, as well as pigs and people that have fantasies that border on rape all fall into this category ... in my eyes anyway; OR
3) Make love to them - which is the most intimate and attentive of the three forms of sexual congress, as the emphasis is on the experience and the blending of the physical with the emotional ... lots of direct eye-contact, together with slow and deliberate movements calculated to please the OTHER person as well as yourself, but always being mindful that you're making love to another person, and that you want them to enjoy it to the max.
... what are your thoughts on that ?
Are there other brackets you think I've missed ??
It's just how I see it, but I welcome comments xx
!?!?! Shadow !?!?!
BROADLY-SPEAKING there are three main ways of engaging in sexual congress with somebody ... you can either :-
1) Have sex with them - which is what I consider most casual fumbles, one-night stands and sexual flings engaged in which we're growing and developing, from teenage shags to people throwing caution to the wind for a night of pleasure. There is an emotional side to it, but it's oftentimes quite selfish or naïve, insofar as it's perhaps sometimes kinda inexperienced;
2) F*ck them - which is a purely primal and physical type of sexual intercourse where the emphasis is almost solely on the physical pleasure of the act, pretty much at the expense of the emotional and intimate side of it ... people that engage in heavy fetish-related sexual play, as well as pigs and people that have fantasies that border on rape all fall into this category ... in my eyes anyway; OR
3) Make love to them - which is the most intimate and attentive of the three forms of sexual congress, as the emphasis is on the experience and the blending of the physical with the emotional ... lots of direct eye-contact, together with slow and deliberate movements calculated to please the OTHER person as well as yourself, but always being mindful that you're making love to another person, and that you want them to enjoy it to the max.
... what are your thoughts on that ?
Are there other brackets you think I've missed ??
It's just how I see it, but I welcome comments xx
!?!?! Shadow !?!?!
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