lost my virginity now i'm bleeding...

[OrphanPip]

You shouldn't wash it out. In all likelihood it is a hemorrhoid that will correct on its own, or with the help of an ointment. You are in LA, so there probably should be a gay health services, or gay youth service available that you can call that can help you with your options. Being in the US, I understand cost can be an issue too.

Also, hemorrhoids happen to people for reasons other than anal sex, so you can just go with your parents and have it checked out and trust in the doctor's discretion.

[damon]

You shouldn't wash it out. In all likelihood it is a hemorrhoid that will correct on its own, or with the help of an ointment. You are in LA, so there probably should be a gay health services, or gay youth service available that you can call that can help you with your options. Being in the US, I understand cost can be an issue too.

Also, hemorrhoids happen to people for reasons other than anal sex, so you can just go with your parents and have it checked out and trust in the doctor's discretion.

agree with you, 9 men have hemorrhoids in 10 men, its a chinese wording.

[posterpicture]

well the problem with going to the doctor is that i'm only 17 and my mom always insists on sitting in on all of my doctors appointments and never gives me alone to talk to the doctors because she "wants to know whats going on" and shes kind of a control freak. i don't even know if i'm legally allowed to talk to a doctor by myself. i should probably be honest with my doctor but i REALLY don't want my mom to know that i'm having sex with guys.

You should give them a call. They will be able to answer your question:

http://www.cmanet.org/

I did some research for your case for you. I am not sure how to answer your question but here is what I got:

Emergency

All states allow parental consent for treatment of a minor to be waived in the event of a medical emergency. The circumstances that should be present in order for such an emergency include the patient being incapacitated to the point of being unable to give an informed choice, the circumstances are life-threatening or serious enough that immediate treatment is required, and it would be impossible or imprudent to try to get consent from someone regarding the patient. In these cases, consent of the parent is presumed, since otherwise the minor would suffer avoidable injury.

Sexually Transmitted Diseases

Every state currently allows minors over the age of 12 to receive testing for sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV, without parental consent. Most of these states allow minors to receive treatment for all sexually transmitted diseases without parental consent; however, three states—California, New Mexico, and Ohio—as of 2002 do not allow minors to receive treatment for HIV without parental consent. One state, Iowa, requires that parents be notified in the event of a positive HIV test. Many states allow doctors to notify the parents of the results of tests and treatment for sexually transmitted diseases, though they do not require the doctor to get a consent.

Confidentiality of Medical Records

States that allow minors to consent to certain medical procedures often provide for confidentiality from parents in regard to those medical procedures. However, this is not always the case. Many states allow the doctor to inform parents of medical procedures, and some states require parental notifications about specific medical procedures done on minors even when the minor has given consent.

When confidentiality is provided for, California's statute is typical of the requirements. It states that except as provided by law or if the minor authorizes it in writing, physicians are prohibited from telling the minor's parents or legal guardian about medical care the minor was legally able to authorize. The physician is required to discuss with the minor the advantages of disclosing the proposed treatment to the minor's parents or legal guardian before services are rendered.

Source:

http://www.enotes.com/everyday-law-encyc...ed-consent

[Paul1]

Yes I also have had to deal with hemmeroids which in the past has made anal sex very painful for me.

You really do need to go to the doctor I'm afraid. I hate the doctor as much as you, but the good news is that likely you will simply need to shove a cream up there. Dunno about anyone else, but I love the soothing feeling of the ointment.

[ManicReptile21]

it could also just be something as simple as ze " internal hemorroids" i mean it was you losing your virginity, so the possibility of you straining yourself too hard is quite high. but a doctor should figure that out (yes they will put on the glove and reach down in below). Had that done to me, then i had to take suppositories. blehhhh. I hope your well!