Future...for a Bisexual

[galacticquasar]

What could the future hold for a bisexual boy? Can he ever think of being in a stable relationship?
I am as of now a little confused about my sexuality...and also a little apprehensive about what long term happiness would be for a bisexual?

[Merging]

of course you can have a stable and long happy relationship if you are equally attracted to men and women you just have more options to find that special someone you lucky dog you

Don't worry I have bi-sexual friends who have been in very happy relationships for years

[Yuki]

First off, welcome to the site galacticquasar. I would say that it is possible to be in a stable relationship. Being bisexual is not the end of the world. There are a lot of other bisexual guys and gals here that can help you.

[Gabbyboy]

i have to be honest with you, its not easy to be bisexual, you can end up marrying a woman but still crave for men, But thats just me, its still your life, who knows you may change in the coming years, your still young anyway. right now just have fun and don't fear. So what you can do is watch two kinds of porn. straight and gay porn - whatever turns you on the most is the sexuality you may wanna have.

- well thats my best advice, and i'm not really good in giving them.. okay bro have fun

[matty7]

wish i had a great answer for you but i dont - i just think when the right person... boy or girl comes into your life then u will know that they are the one you want to spend the rest of your life with

[ZackT]

I get your concern. You don't know if you'll ultimately be happier with a man or a woman, and you're worried you'll end up picking the wrong one.

I think you've got a bit of an advantage right now though, because you are single. That means you can guilt-free explore and test the waters with both guys and girls and see who you have more fun with, who you like being with more. And if you want to take it as far as sex, then test that out too by all means.

In my own personal experience, I'm Bi and I only recently fully admitted that to myself. But it's been a conscious part of me for a few years that I always tried to ignore. Now, I'm in a near 2-year long relationship with this girl and lately all I can think about is men. I mean, I look at female porn too a lot, but what I really want is a man right now and I can't really do that without ending my relationship, which I don't want to do.

So my advice is to try and get yourself a little more figured out by testing things, before you get yourself involved with anyone.

[zeon]

hello and welcome firstly,
Everyone can have a relationship its how you treat it that counts... Dont rush things just experiement and self teach yourself is the best place

[jbrowder24]

I've heard of bisexuals at times struggling because I think whatever gender you end up with, that person might fear you really like the other gender more; plus there are those that don't believe in bisexuality. It's a s shame... Personally, I think bisexual people are lucky because they have more options to choose from! I'd love to be bisexual as I live in a rural area. But, I think it'd take an amazing woman to make me even consider being with one (I don't mean 'changing', but that .001 percent of me that might be heterosexual), and even then it'd be a long shot as I definitely prefer the male form!

[ZackT]

My friend tells me being bi is just being greedy

[Paul1]

In my own personal experience, I'm Bi and I only recently fully admitted that to myself. But it's been a conscious part of me for a few years that I always tried to ignore. Now, I'm in a near 2-year long relationship with this girl and lately all I can think about is men. I mean, I look at female porn too a lot, but what I really want is a man right now and I can't really do that without ending my relationship, which I don't want to do.

Hey ZackT, have you considered proposing a threesome to your gf. She might like the idea of being in bed with two guys, and then you can share the experience with her.