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anti-gay bullying
#11
Having said all that, I've just noticed Wouldlikemuscle has already responded, so I really needn't have said anything at all ...

Ho-hum Rolleyes.

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#12
shadow Wrote:We all make mistakes, we all make stupid decisions and, as Holmzie has said, he's not proud of what he did by any means, so perhaps it's just best to let the past stay in the past, and look forward to a better future, non ??

Confusedmile:

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I agree

shadow Wrote:Having said all that, I've just noticed Wouldlikemuscle has already responded, so I really needn't have said anything at all ...

Ho-hum Rolleyes.

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lol :biggrin:
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#13
Just lookin' out for ya babe xx

Bighug.

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#14
In school I get bullied like every day all because i am gay I have been beaten up my bike got nicked then i got mugged then beaten up again pretty much everyday.

also everyone calls me a puff head just cause i smoke weed cause i can not cope with it all my X left me because he said i was moaning to much about it.

and to put the icing on the f***kin cake about 1 week ago i got beaten up out side school just because he heard that i was gay and he did not even know me. lol fucked up world
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#15
sorry to hear that Gayboigarry... especially in London. Seems we really are going a bit backwards than forward in our human heart.. oh well, gotta keep fighting I guess.

Best of luck and hope some things change for the better Gayboigarry Bighug
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#16
Gayboigarry Wrote:... and to put the icing on the f***kin cake about 1 week ago i got beaten up out side school just because he heard that i was gay and he did not even know me. lol fucked up world
Sadly, 'twas ever thus. Homophobia is one of many excuses for bullying. When I was nine, my family moved and I had to start a new school. I thought the school was great, much better than where I'd come from ... for the first two days. Going home after the second day I was stopped by a much bigger boy I didn't know. He asked me if my name was ------- -------- to which I replied that it was. He punched me in the face. I never found out why.

So to Anthony O'Rourke, who would not remember me among the kids he beat up, I remember you. The memory of your fist is indelibly imprinted on my jaw. May your shamrocks never bloom Cheerleader2

Btw, Garry, your school should have anti-homophobic policies in place. They can't take action if you don't report it, although I know how difficult that might be.

Hugs and good luck to you.
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#17
Hi All,
In school i never suffered bullying for being gay mainly for wearing glasses which i ditched lol.. I bullied a guy in school who when i was 12 had my first gay experience with but i made his life hell because of my denial but now im friends with him as adults which is good.. He was the class clown though and entertained loads of people with his campness.. I have suffered bullying in the workplace when working for companies which included iceland, BP, and my current work i havent experienced any of this... If you decide to do one on workplace bullying heres my experience...

I started working at icelands when i was 17 and i was coming to terms with my sexuality... My locker didnt work and i put my mobile in and a supervisor saw my mobile read messag3es and then shared them with other collegues by texting to their phones from my mobile forwarding it on... After one of the employees showed me i hit the roof handed in my letter and left on the spot manager begged me to stay but i told him i cant work here while his there. After he got sacked i got offered my job back but had found another working at BP..

BP :- I worked at a gatwick terminal and had a prodominantly asian workforce (and thats not really a suprise as every garage seems to have this) and one day one of the companies with gatwick airport ADS pulled on the forecourt to fill with fuel and the worker i was with said "zeon you see that van?? the one with the ADS" I said yeah he replied "Stick and I between the Aand D and its what you got hinting i had aids.. I then replied well the only thing ill say in return to that is that when i shag a guy i can wipe the shit away and wipe it white whereas you.. That shit isnt only on your cock but on your whole body because you were born as nothing more than an imbredded piece of shit..

That didnt go down too well and i ended up being done for racism by my manager who was white and he.... Well got let off the hook so i resigned and as i walked out my boss said... What about the bank holiday periods its our busiest time and we are short staff.. I said


YOUR THE FUCKING MANAGER FUCKING MANAGE YOU CUNT

infront of loads of families and customers Smile

kindest regards

zeon
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#18
Fair play Zeon!!!
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#19
Zeon,

Don't let them drag you down to their level.
Fred

Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.
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#20
An interesting debate. As I left school in 1982 section 28 was never an issue.I suffered a bit of bullying but that was because I was a fat kid from a middle class family. I hadnt acepted my sexuality at the time and I don't think it caused me to be bullied. I had one friend who was gay and came out to a few close friends by the time we were in the sixth form , and he was bullied a lot, but in hindsight I don't think it was directly homophobic. Rether, because he knew he was gay , at a time and in a place ( rural mid wales) where that was unthinkable that made him feel , and act vulnerable because of the secret he was hiding and bulies have a way of latching onto vulnerability.
I also remember one younger kid who suffered a fair amount of bullying, but I only found out years later he was gay. Again i think he atracted the attention of the bullies not directly because of the fact he was gay, but because his was of coping/hiding was by being something of a comedian, which just made him a target in another way.

Looking back I think that bizzarely section 28 had in the long term probably been beneficial to the gay community. It certainly gave us a cause to rally around, and may have helped ignite the campaigning spirit that has eventualy led to an equal age of consent and civil partnerships.

When s28 was brought in by Thatcher's govermnent , it was done really as a propaganda exercise to show they were dealing with what they portrayed as the 'threat' of 'loony left /militant ' councils tthat were 'promoting homosexuality' . (as an aside as someone active on the left in student politics in the mid 1980's I recall that in fact the Militant Tendency always had a reputation for being somewhat homophobic).

The number of councils concerned were few, largely in inner london. By passing section 28 Thatchers government ensured that the issue of homosexuality , in schools ceased to be 'the love that dare not speak its name' which could be ignored, but then became an issue that every local education authority and school board of governers in the country had to consider, even if only in the context that they had to consider whether they were doing anything that could be construed as breaching its provisions.

By turning what was a local issue in a few boroughs into a national one the tories actually created an argument that eventually they lost.

An historical 'own goal'?
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