Regular Anal Sex

[princealbertofb]

Thanks for the good advice, guys. I talked to my friend and I do think that he was just "dreaming"/being romantic. I'm not ready to move in with anyone right now and told him so. We talked about my concern about having anal frequently. He's been very gentle so far and assured me that he would never do anything to hurt me and that he likes it slow and gentle best.

I think we'll just take this friendship slow and gentle as well. Again, thanks for the help.

Atlanta, I'm taking it that you are using condoms, and that maybe you need to use more lube, or maybe, even, you are allergic to latex, which might explain the itchiness and the soreness... The fact that you are slightly worried, not to mention scared, may also make you tense up and make rubbing more likely to end up in soreness. So it would make every sense to talk to your boyfriend about it and to find new and interesting ways to pleasure each other. YOu'd probably do well to check on latex allergies, because there are different types of condoms, some, I think, are vinyl instead of latex...

[jeffrey]

Some may disagree, but I find that a foreskin makes anal sex much more comfortable. Without the foreskin there may be too much friction and even with lubrication the receiver may still experience some discomfort. Foreskin restoration is a viable option, but requires much time and dedication. I now have skin covering my glans when flaccid. When erect the skin is quite loose and that makes a world of difference during anal sex.

[Jason74]

I think that it all depends on how intense the anal sex is. I mean if he is gentle and goes slow then I see nothing wrong with long lasting pain or whatever, yet if he is hardcore and raping that ass every night then I think it might not a be a good idea. I do know that I prefer being the bottom when he is taking his time and really making love to me and is just not doing it to cum. It feels so intense when its slow and thats why I still enjoy being a bottom, if he was hardcore I think we would def have to switch and see how he likes it, yet he might actually, lol

[Jayd]

You are going to have to mix it up in the bedroom. And he will have to be gentle if he plans on having sex everyday. And like other members said, you have to be careful and know when to say no if you are experiencing pain.

[princealbertofb]

Some may disagree, but I find that a foreskin makes anal sex much more comfortable. Without the foreskin there may be too much friction and even with lubrication the receiver may still experience some discomfort. Foreskin restoration is a viable option, but requires much time and dedication. I now have skin covering my glans when flaccid. When erect the skin is quite loose and that makes a world of difference during anal sex.

Interesting point, Jeffrey, so one more point for NOT circumcising every male for NO reason at all!