10-29-2011, 11:40 AM
No guy is worth those thoughts adzie.
Go through a break up is a process. Denial, anger, shock, grief, acceptance...it's only then you can move on. It sounds like you have given too much of yourself to the relationship in the past, and in reality some people cannot be friends after such a relationship, especially so soon after a break up because what you are doing is you are dragging yourself back to the point where you are about to break up, so everytime you part your ways you have to start the healing process again.
It seems to me that you haven't got past the denial part yet.
It is over, I doubt a friendship can happen because friendship have to be built, you have done the opposite. Now you have to let your anger out and continue on.
Best not to see each other for a while while emotions on both sides are so raw.
Go through a break up is a process. Denial, anger, shock, grief, acceptance...it's only then you can move on. It sounds like you have given too much of yourself to the relationship in the past, and in reality some people cannot be friends after such a relationship, especially so soon after a break up because what you are doing is you are dragging yourself back to the point where you are about to break up, so everytime you part your ways you have to start the healing process again.
It seems to me that you haven't got past the denial part yet.
It is over, I doubt a friendship can happen because friendship have to be built, you have done the opposite. Now you have to let your anger out and continue on.
Best not to see each other for a while while emotions on both sides are so raw.