So let me start with im a virgin, now i wanted to see what it was all about so i bought a Fleshlight (vagina). Now never having sex i would of thought when i going "into" it, that i would of got some great pleasure from it. Well that didnt really happen, yes i got off, but i was just like ummm ok..so not what i was expecting. So im like well maybe ill try the bottom roll. i bought a 6.5" dildo, and same effect, it kinda hurt, but never any pleasure from it. So whats the deal with me?
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Well maybe sex toys just aren't the thing for you. As far as I'm concerned, I can never reach the level of excitement and arousal alone as I can with another person. There is also the matter of the intimacy and emotional connection that comes with sex.
I mostly agree about dildos, my limited experience with them is that they aren't that fun, but we're not all the same haha. Never tried a fleshlight.
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I like to wank... Thats all i can say since im also a virgin.
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I have problems......when I'm with a partner, sometimes, getting off (TMI?), so my best orgasms, anyways, are usually of solitary nature. I have a Fleshlight but only occasionally use it.....they're not tight enough for me. They're nice if I like a different sensation.
A dildo, well....that's a whole other story. Depends if you get off thinking of yourself as a bottom and being submissive. Try fingers first; if you like that sensation thread lightly with the dildo. Stimulation of the prostrate has been know to cause male orgasm/ejaculation, but everyone is different (it can be hot for me, but I've never gotten off on it alone, on the occasions I do do that).
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I wouldn't know how a fleshlight feels, but I've heard some people love em and others like you don't really care for them.
As for dildos, well I've tried a few different sizes and so far haven't had much success with it. I get off on the idea of being a bottom and being penetrated and all that, but using a dildo for me is a bit awkward.
So regular jacking off works for me.
I will say that having had "regular sex", the initial penetration in to my girlfriend does feel pretty good.
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i understand....thanks guys!
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I'd hate a flesh light but dildos are good for me. Although they don't feel the same and can be too rigid etc.
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