Why do we watch porn? Why do you watch porn?

[WesHollywood]

........I like to download hentai though, I like pictures alot. But even there, I generally click through the pictures pretty quickly.

For you it is Hentai and for me it was Tom of Finland - both fantasy drawing rather than regular old porn of a couple guys plugging each other. I wonder if there is some deep-seeded secret in this. Perhaps the extreme over-sized cocks and bodies?

[LateBloomer]

For you it is Hentai and for me it was Tom of Finland - both fantasy drawing rather than regular old porn of a couple guys plugging each other. I wonder if there is some deep-seeded secret in this. Perhaps the extreme over-sized cocks and bodies?

I've always been mystified by this phenomenon (I call it cartoon porn. I realize there are different "styles").

Anyway, maybe I'm too narrow minded, plain vanilla, in my tastes, but I just don't get it--any of it. But I'm always interested in different aspects of sexuality and if someone can explain it, like you made a couple suggestions, I would be interested.

[BellyNel]

Heh.



Thanks for saying so AND providing a little eye candy.

mile:

I agree - LOVE the eye candy, too! :biggrin:

[WesHollywood]

I've always been mystified by this phenomenon (I call it cartoon porn. I realize there are different "styles").

Anyway, maybe I'm too narrow minded, plain vanilla, in my tastes, but I just don't get it--any of it. But I'm always interested in different aspects of sexuality and if someone can explain it, like you made a couple suggestions, I would be interested.

Somehow I believe I will never understand human sexuality in my lifetime. At the same time I question why sex is such a big deal. I could care less if a POTUS pokes some bimbo who is not his wife. So, what is the big deal? Isn't this their personal business. I am amazed at some of the things that turn me on, and some of the things that don't.

Put two guys who are not my type in soccer uniforms kissing and I am ready to go!

[BellyNel]

BellyNel, you'll be in for a big surprise when you get yourself a man to have sex with. What you see in porn probably won't apply. Of course, there's the mechanics of it, the techniques etc... which may be interesting to take example from, but a lot of porn does not resemble real life sex at all.

For one thing, you'll have to get comfortable with each other, which, at times, is not all that easy, then you won't have the same visual stimuli, as, when you're in a lock with someone, you don't get to see the things that are filmed by external cameras. You'll have to rely more on your senses, which is not a bad thing. But porn is really for visual stimulation, first and foremost.

The next thing you'll have to deal with is your partner's personality. Again, unlike in porn movies where they always seem to be consenting to whatever you see, you'll have to negociate what you two can do together without anyone getting frustrated or hurt. Porn actors don't discuss that in public so much, it's all agreed on previously in their contracts, I believe. (The parts that we don't get to see).

So it is still incumbent on you to ask your partner about safer sex and whether you must wear condoms. It's still incumbent on you to make the conditions for sex as healthy and enjoyable as possible, so don't forget to buy the lube and condoms. And don't worry, if it doesn't work out immediately, wait until you are both more relaxed about the relationship. Practise a bit ahead of time. Practise putting on a condom, practise having something up there with a sex toy if necessary.

Yes, it is true that what you see in porn isn't always real. I was a subscriber to this site William Higgins - heard of them? Well, there was this one video where it shows you the behind the scenes of the making of a movie. Did you know that the porn moves are choreographed? Like for example, picking up a guy and fucking him in the air isn't exactly the easiest - really? I thought if you were big and strong, any of those lifting positions would be easy. Guess not.

[BellyNel]

i use it for both entertainment and as learning material. Im still a virgin so i need as much help as i can get to prepare for that amazing night...day...WEEK lol

I hear yah! I'm an 27 year old virgin myself... It could give me ideas...

[LateBloomer]

Somehow I believe I will never understand human sexuality in my lifetime. At the same time I question why sex is such a big deal. I could care less if a POTUS pokes some bimbo who is not his wife. So, what is the big deal? Isn't this their personal business. I am amazed at some of the things that turn me on, and some of the things that don't.

Put two guys who are not my type in soccer uniforms kissing and I am ready to go!

Um, no DOUBT.



But you know what? Sex is power.

That's why it's a big deal.

Think about it.

[BellyNel]

not sure if I believe it.

But porn is a great way for me to rub one off. I cant do it without porn though. I need some visuals.

Not me - since I keep staring at guys too often, and afraid that one day that I might get caught, I keep their face and body in my head and jerk off to that. What porn turns me on - ooh - another question to ask :biggrin: The porn that turns me on is BIG guy on smaller guy, older guy doing younger guy, taller guy doing shorter guy, and my absolute favorite, thought it doesn't happen too often - when the guy carries the guy in his arms like a baby somewhere - like to the bed, up the stairs, something... :biggrin:mile:

I jerk off while bathing - easier to clean up. And then if I'm alone and everyone is asleep, I also jerk off. Found some new ways to catch my cum and not make a mess - stick my entire package into a plastic cup. Have you done it before? And also cum into latex gloves, sticking it into the tightest finger... :biggrin:

[Thibideau]

Well back in high school I garuntee there was a few times where I jacked it 8 or 9 times in a day. Never under estimate the libido of a teen age male. Back then the smallest thing could get my mind just spinning in circles. Every bit of porn I saw was something new and exciting.

Porn loses it's magic after a while though. In College I actually tried to see how long I could go without masturbating. That was way more of a challenge than seeing how many I could jerk it in one day. It gets to a point where you're hard pretty much all the time for no reason. In a way guys need porn for their own good :p

[theclosetgay]

Well, I think there's a multitude of reasons and I'm sure we all could talk about this for a while.

But for me, it really just comes down to me either being bored or insanely horny. I have a high sex drive and like looking at hot guys (don't we all?!) . When I do, I get hard and do my thing.

I also watch it to get some ideas as well to be honest.

Let's be honest, when we watch it, we fantasize, we have to put ourselves in the picture to a sense. It enables us to imagine being in the experience and to a certain extent, have that experience.

All in all, it's just plain fun