is my officemate gay?

[posterpicture]

Well, I actually asked him already.
He said no.

I would say no if a random classmate/coworker asks me that same question lol.
Why didn't you ask a better question: are you into me?

To be honest, in GLBT community the G is not that popular.

[zed05]

LateBloomer, I know right..
I am so bummed out.. I was avoiding him this morning, but he was able to corner me when we had our team meeting. I saw him, and he was all this puppy dog eyes on me. But I held my ground.
I need to move on now. I can't afford to lose my heart to someone who doesn't deserve it...


Posterpicture, well, yeah.. I know..
But I think I should get drunk first, before I can muster the courage to ask him that.



I'm now officially heartbroken, coz, remember he said he wanted to go with me, when I go to middle east asia. But, he then said, he is undecided about it. Dang! I really thought he wanted to come to be with me..

[zed05]

Sounds like office sexual harassment to me. In the states we can file suits and have the unwanted attentions of those types removed....

If you WANT that attention, then everything is screaming that he is very interested in you.

Its not like he is exactly hiding his desire here....

Next time you to are alone ASK HIM what he wants.

Stop trying to guess what he wants, who and what he is. If he is in a relationship and you are uncomfortable with all of this attention, TELL HIM.

Chances are he is bisexual and wants a boy on the side. Then again he might have a serious attraction and is staying with the girl because he doesn't know how to do 'being alone'. Either way ASK HIM.

I am actually uncomfortable of it, now.
I don't know, but ever since I avoided him..
He never got the chance to do those "signs" again.
When we are having meetings, I make sure to stay away from where he is. I sometimes see him looking at me, but.. That's just that.
I don't want toi confront him anymore, coz.. It might just hurt me in the end. I'll just move on..
I hate him, for making me fall in love with him.
If it was intentional or not, I don't care.
I don't want anything that has something to do with him. I'm gonna quit by march next year to finally take that job in middle east. Hopefully, by then.. I can finally move on, and get him out of my system..



And you know what's funny..
Our boss organized a christmas party.
And we had decided to do some exchange gift thingy... I was the last to draw.. And Heaven Forbid... I got his fucking name... Oh well.. Nothing personal.. I'll think about it as part of my job, and get this year's christmas over with.

Thanks for all the help guys!
I now need advice on how to move on..

[LateBloomer]

And you know what's funny..
Our boss organized a christmas party.
And we had decided to do some exchange gift thingy... I was the last to draw.. And Heaven Forbid... I got his fucking name... Oh well.. Nothing personal.. I'll think about it as part of my job, and get this year's christmas over with.

Thanks for all the help guys!
I now need advice on how to move on..

Here's some Christmas gift advice!

Traditionally good kids receive toys, cookies, other treats.

But BAD kids receive LUMPS OF COAL!

There's a suggestion for your gift.

[zed05]

Here's some Christmas gift advice!

Traditionally good kids receive toys, cookies, other treats.

But BAD kids receive LUMPS OF COAL!

There's a suggestion for your gift.

Haha.. Well, I'm planning on not attending that party. I'll just buy him something he likes, then have one of our officemate give it to him.

I'm quitting soon.
I told him earlier, after work.
Aside the fact that I have been failing to meet my goals for two months now, I am really considering quitting, coz I can't stand to be around him anymore.
I don't hate him.. But, it would be best if I can live my life without him.
I hate the drama. But, geez, I can't believe I cried over him.

My boss would kill me soon, if I don't start meeting the goals, but, I'm so distracted and depressed about him. Funny right? I'm so pathetic. But I can't help it.

[LateBloomer]

My boss would kill me soon, if I don't start meeting the goals, but, I'm so distracted and depressed about him. Funny right? I'm so pathetic. But I can't help it.

Don't beat up yourself for having a heart and being human. Do stay professional. Hope this all gets sorted out soon for you.

[zed05]

I would like to stay professional..
But, my boss knows how I feel..
And I'm sure she will blame him for me failing.
I just don't know what to do now..
I have to live without him..
I've known him for six months, and he feels like my life already..

[zed05]

One of the bosses in my department, is gay..
And he told my "officemate" that I like him..
He wasn't bothered, and he didn't ask me about it.. What do you think that means?

[Bowyn Aerrow]

And you know what's funny..
Our boss organized a christmas party.
And we had decided to do some exchange gift thingy... I was the last to draw.. And Heaven Forbid... I got his fucking name... Oh well.. Nothing personal.. I'll think about it as part of my job, and get this year's christmas over with.

Thanks for all the help guys!
I now need advice on how to move on..

God tends to have a wicked sense of humor.... Or Fate, or Destiny or whatever guides the universe.

Sorry.

You will be OK.

[zed05]

I've lost it..
I wanna quit my job..
I'll just accept that job overseas..
I can't help it.. Everyday.. When I see him looking at me, and you know he wants to say something but can't.. Then the fact that, I can't muster the courage to tell him too? Gosh.. It kills me..

Thanks for all the words of encouragement guys..
But I decided that, there never really was something to hold on to, for me to let go..
So, imma walk away from the pain..