What causes t/b preference?

[dfiant]

What do you think causes someone to be top or bottom? Is it biological, environmental? I almost feel like I was born with my preference and it's as a matter of fact as being brown eyed.

one word....erogenous zones.

oooops, thats 2 words

[Almac]

Top, Bottom, does it really matter, I would have thought respect for each other is far more important than this obsession.

[mrk2010]

Top, Bottom, does it really matter, I would have thought respect for each other is far more important than this obsession.

Awww bless, nice way to think about it. To be honest I just think its what you prefer sexually, nothing too complicated. :-)

[AirBorn]

I like both. It is all about pleasure and what feels good to you and that moment. It is also about pleasing your partner, which is exciting in its self.