World AIDS Day!

[Mark]

Hmm I seem well stupid :tongue:

What annoys me is if someone says "why you not got a gf", "Oh im gay", "Oh you dont seem gay" - Im like.. What am I meant to be?

Thats why I dont tell people my sexuality straight away, I want them to get to know me, not stereotype me.

[GayComputerDude]

Hmm I seem well stupid :tongue:

What annoys me is if someone says "why you not got a gf", "Oh im gay", "Oh you dont seem gay" - Im like.. What am I meant to be?

Thats why I dont tell people my sexuality straight away, I want them to get to know me, not stereotype me.

did it occur to you .. maybe they don't care what you are???
if they're straight - it was just a question
not to mention maybe they were asking because they were interested?

[Wilem]

HA yer I get that too.

I quite like coming out to new people now. Coz I only ever mention it if it comes up, whenever that is. (Lol someone who's known me for a year only learnt it last week she had a heart attack.)

It always goes back to the thing of camper (a la Mr Grace) people being easier to categorise. Which people like to do.

[Mark]

Nah alot make comments on it.. and then the reply when finding im gay is "OMG WE CAN GO SHOPPING" - Girls

"Aha awesome blowjobs gallore" - Guys (which ive had asked alot :l)

[GayComputerDude]

HA yer I get that too.

I quite like coming out to new people now. Coz I only ever mention it if it comes up, whenever that is. (Lol someone who's known me for a year only learnt it last week she had a heart attack.)

It always goes back to the thing of camper (a la Mr Grace) people being easier to categorise. Which people like to do.

LOL

after I got over the ones I was "afraid" to come out to ... now I just be myself

and if a guy walks by that is hot or whatever I comment

and then they look at me strange

then they talk it over with whoever else might have been there
and then in a few weeks they ask me

I love it!
LOL
LOL

[Mark]

Eh? LOL Didnt understand that.

[GayComputerDude]

what didn't u understand?

[Mark]

LOL

and if a guy walks by that is hot or whatever I comment

and then they look at me strange

then they talk it over with whoever else might have been there
and then in a few weeks they ask me

I love it!
LOL
LOL

that I dont get what you mean.

[GayComputerDude]

that I dont get what you mean.

well if they're straight .. they're looking at things/people I'm not

so I just throw in a "that guy is hot"

and say nothing else

then they all discuss it

and in a few weeks ask if I'm gay

[Mark]

AHH MAKES SENSE NOW,

-Cough CRAZY american cough-