01-09-2012, 08:59 PM
Ok, so this is my last resort (no offense) So I've been single (by choice) and have not wanted an actual relationship for exactly 5 years this month. I have been going on dates, but they were really meaningless, as in somewhere inside me I knew I didn't want it to go beyond two or three dates.
I have recently (like new years day) decided to get back into "serious" dating leading towards an LTR and since apparently fate didn't want me to wait any longer, I've met this really sweet and adorable guy (more like noticed that he was right infront of me)... I had the courage to ask him out last week and we are going on our first date this Saturday... I have been playing it cool since it was so far away.... Today I wake up and I am full of butterflies... I am so nervous and I have no idea why, I am usually quick in coming up with date ideas and things to make guys smile and stuff but right now I am drawing a blank. I thought I had a plan but I want this to be special not just for him, but also because this is my first attempt to date in a serious way.
I have no clue on what to do. Well I sort of do... I was thinking about meeting somewhere in the city and going out to a dinner to start off the night (of course I already have my greeting down pack with the flower and everything)... but Idk should we do dinner? should we do something else?... what should we do after?... I hate feeling this way, I hate not being in control of my thoughts because some amazing guy has me all confused... :confused:
Please help!... Any suggestion would be greatly appreciated :-)
I have recently (like new years day) decided to get back into "serious" dating leading towards an LTR and since apparently fate didn't want me to wait any longer, I've met this really sweet and adorable guy (more like noticed that he was right infront of me)... I had the courage to ask him out last week and we are going on our first date this Saturday... I have been playing it cool since it was so far away.... Today I wake up and I am full of butterflies... I am so nervous and I have no idea why, I am usually quick in coming up with date ideas and things to make guys smile and stuff but right now I am drawing a blank. I thought I had a plan but I want this to be special not just for him, but also because this is my first attempt to date in a serious way.
I have no clue on what to do. Well I sort of do... I was thinking about meeting somewhere in the city and going out to a dinner to start off the night (of course I already have my greeting down pack with the flower and everything)... but Idk should we do dinner? should we do something else?... what should we do after?... I hate feeling this way, I hate not being in control of my thoughts because some amazing guy has me all confused... :confused:
Please help!... Any suggestion would be greatly appreciated :-)