What do you consider cheating?

[pellaz]

keep things simple:
Sexting? //would he want you to do it
Flriting? //would he want you to do it
Kissing? //would he want you to do it
Sex? //would he want you to do it


"what if you been dating for 1, 2,3, or 4 months and you have not talked about being exclusive or haven't be asked to be their bfs, then what is cheating then? "

go for it but forget abut the current boo, he is not the one you want.
you have to WANT a relationship to MAKE it a success.

[LateBloomer]

Oh...this is like the husband who engages in sexy online chats while his wife is downstairs with the kids.

He never met his chat partner but keeps the whole thing a secret from his wife because she wouldn't approve.

So they say, if you wouldn't do it with your wife in the room it's cheating.

[John]

I don't know why, but for me, kissing and of course having sex with another one would be the worst cheating ever!

[Dark Vamp]

Cheating for me would be all of those, what I would not consider cheating is if you are just dating and nothing has been talked about being serious with each other, but either way if you are dating someone and you are doing all those with someone else thats not very nice. I would thing the person would just focus on one person at a time. But thats just me.

[BabyPolarBear]

Kissing sex intimate hugs and serious flirting are chopping off your happy place no nos. So basically if you would do it to your mother is fine. But stuff you would do it on, under, above or to me and you do it to someone else heads will roll

[EricOntario]

Anything I wouldn't be OK with telling the person I'm "cheating on" about.

[iPromise]

Betrayal sexually would pretty much do it for me.

[CSL]

It all depends on how much you really like this guy... if you are trying to figure out what is consider cheating then maybe (just maybe) you may not be into this guy as much as you think you do.

I for one when I truly like a guy, I stay away from everything you've listed (except flirting, drinks are expensive and it is always nice to get someone to buy you drinks :tongue

As you also said you guys have not had the "talk"... with or without the talk, if you still feel the need to do the things you listed with other people then you should tell the guy that you are not ready to have something serious. Be upfront and honest, mainly to yourself.

[East]

I define cheating as lying to me. If my partner were to have sex with someone else I can deal with it but if they lie about it I can't deal with it.