01-28-2014, 09:08 PM
Iâm a straight young guy and a student. Right now Iâm living in a flat-share together with two guys. When I moved in, I realized that theyâre gay couple. Iâm definitely not a homophobe, I'm quite gay friendly, but we didn't actually become friends, just flatmates. Just they donât bother me and I donât bother them. Theyâre living in one room and Iâm living in the other.
Every weekend one of those guys leaves our flat for a few days. As far as I know, heâs visiting his parents in some other city. And the thing is that when heâs gone, his boyfriend is flirting with me. Iâm sorry, but I donât know other word for his behavior. It started in the first weekend after I moved in. He came to me and told me that he was bored and wanted someone to talk to. I didn't send him away, I can understand that sitting alone in your room is no fun. Now he spends with me almost every moment, although I often use weekends for studying and I donât have much time for him.
Once we accidentally met in the bathroom when he was out of the shower and suddenly his towel fell to the floor, but actually it looked like he dropped it purposely. Then he complimented me saying that Iâve cute butt. I never say anything to him, because Iâm not sure what does he mean by all this.
The last time he asked me millions of questions about my relationships with girls, my experience, likes and dislikes in sex. He asked if I ever had anything with a guy. When I said no, he was like "how can you be sure you're straight if you haven't made love with a guy?" I have to say, I felt stupid. We are not that much of friends for him to ask me such things.
So is it just some kind of weird gay sense of humor or is he interested in me? He knows Iâm straight, so does he really think he can make it change? Sometimes I think that maybe I should talk to his boyfriend and tell him what does his lover do when heâs gone. The next weekend is coming and he'll probably come to me again. One things that's bad is that I'm a decent and polite person. I cannot just yell at him to get lost. What should I do?
Every weekend one of those guys leaves our flat for a few days. As far as I know, heâs visiting his parents in some other city. And the thing is that when heâs gone, his boyfriend is flirting with me. Iâm sorry, but I donât know other word for his behavior. It started in the first weekend after I moved in. He came to me and told me that he was bored and wanted someone to talk to. I didn't send him away, I can understand that sitting alone in your room is no fun. Now he spends with me almost every moment, although I often use weekends for studying and I donât have much time for him.
Once we accidentally met in the bathroom when he was out of the shower and suddenly his towel fell to the floor, but actually it looked like he dropped it purposely. Then he complimented me saying that Iâve cute butt. I never say anything to him, because Iâm not sure what does he mean by all this.
The last time he asked me millions of questions about my relationships with girls, my experience, likes and dislikes in sex. He asked if I ever had anything with a guy. When I said no, he was like "how can you be sure you're straight if you haven't made love with a guy?" I have to say, I felt stupid. We are not that much of friends for him to ask me such things.
So is it just some kind of weird gay sense of humor or is he interested in me? He knows Iâm straight, so does he really think he can make it change? Sometimes I think that maybe I should talk to his boyfriend and tell him what does his lover do when heâs gone. The next weekend is coming and he'll probably come to me again. One things that's bad is that I'm a decent and polite person. I cannot just yell at him to get lost. What should I do?