I need help, my parents.

[hank]

Hey bill, I think it is awesome that you are able to accept yourself at such an early age. I know every body is telling you not to be in a rush to be out, I do agree with them, because parents can do some very unkind things to their children for not living up to their expectations, what it really comes down to is that.

I told my folks and they seem to make every effort to call people faggots in my presence, I really think they are trying to shame the gay out of me, perhaps this is what your dad is doing.

Add for " acting gay" you should act like bill, who ever bill is. If that means you do the sweet voice, act fabulous, or what ever, express three person that is deep in you, the person you are. Also if that means just being an average guy that is what it means. Never subdue yourself because people don't like you. Normally the ones that Cal you dirty names are angry with themselves because they cannot be the person they truly are. Either fear of ostracism or ridicule. A lot of people seem to get annoyed by this notion of "acting gay" aside from making out with another person of your own gender you are not "acting gay".