08-05-2014, 02:30 AM
CellarDweller Wrote:You just have to be open and honest about it, but not right away.Thanks! now how do I explain that I like sitting on piles of mashed potatoes and gravy while wearing a leather thong and hitting myself in the head with a squeaky mallet? :biggrin:
Once you see that there is a possible future there, and you've talked about sex/getting sexually active, that would be a time to gently bring it up.
When my last ex and I got to that level, I told him about my tickling kink. Of course, I had tickled him before that, playful little pokes here and there. We had a discussion about it. He told me he was uncomfortable with being restrained (which was not a problem for me) but as long as it was kept at a playful level, any of his ticklish spots were open game, and I took full advantage of that. LOL