Updates from awhile back...

[palbert]

From what I read in the first instance you copped a feel off someone who may or may not have been passed out. That is a sexual assault but there appear to be no complaints which would get authorities involved. In any event you seem to be punishing and chastising yourself well enough.

The second incident was consensual and can be dismissed.

I say take this as a lesson on how to behave. If you have lingering questions about his sexuality make it perfectly clear he has to initiate any activity.

Now, go about accepting that what's past is past.