02-26-2015, 02:12 AM
Alot of guys are terrified of intimacy...and of AIDS and other diseases...and they masturbate so they can control ALL OF THE VARIABLES and in the process they build walls that they might not even be aware of...
I was one of those terrified of intimacy guys...I could fuck a stranger or friend with no problem but tell me that you love me and I closed up. I used use the phrase "You can fuck me but don't ever touch me" alot....
For the other guy..it might hurt him to see the guy he loves interested in sex with other guys in either reality or fantasy...but avoiding him...and take it personally. Fear of intimacy is a common problem...and the person who has it needs to have a dialogue with himself...maybe a therapist.,..and also with his partner....
It is a tough thing to overcome actually....never underestimate the power of fear...
I don't know if this is the case or not but I am adding it to this tapestry of insight so you can at least consider it.
I was one of those terrified of intimacy guys...I could fuck a stranger or friend with no problem but tell me that you love me and I closed up. I used use the phrase "You can fuck me but don't ever touch me" alot....
For the other guy..it might hurt him to see the guy he loves interested in sex with other guys in either reality or fantasy...but avoiding him...and take it personally. Fear of intimacy is a common problem...and the person who has it needs to have a dialogue with himself...maybe a therapist.,..and also with his partner....
It is a tough thing to overcome actually....never underestimate the power of fear...
I don't know if this is the case or not but I am adding it to this tapestry of insight so you can at least consider it.
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