Straight man confessions

[InbetweenDreams]

Most guys do in fact like blow jobs, doesn't make it a gay issue. Perhaps more context is needed. Are you saying you're addicted to gay porn and that it has prevented you from being successful at work? Well, that may be true but I say the root problem might be self-control and discipline. A lot of people waste time at work on social media, texting their friends, playing games....looking at porn. You see where I'm going with that? Does any of that make you a bad person? No... Doesn't necessarily make you a bad worker, but I think simply focusing on time management will make a big difference.

First off, the labels. Straight...Bi-sexual, gay... they're all labels. Accept the fact that you, to some degree or another are sexually attracted to men. Does it make you gay? Maybe...maybe not. Does it mean you're no longer straight? Maybe...maybe not. Think of sexuality or sexual orientation like a spectrum. If you think giving or receiving a blog job from a guy sounds like a good time then either embrace it, or not. Now, I'm not familiar with the culture of Ukraine or know how the general public or your peers would react to someone being gay without some research. Generally speaking my advice normally would be to explore your sexuality, if you're curious that is. However, my guess is that where you're located might be an issue. Nevertheless, I would suggest making gay friends (as in to talk to and seek advice) who might be able to help you navigate this sort of stuff.

Finally, men by nature are more promiscuous than women, for the most part. Therefore, it is not surprising that you find yourself with an appetite for sex.

That all being said, what do you want to do about your feelings and your behavior?