Straight slayer!

[Semaj]

So after being fucked over by 2 guys in the past few months since I've come out I sort of lost the monogamy of sex. It's really just a free for all right? And it's too good to share with just one person. But anyway the real reason for this post.

I've started a new sales job recently and deal face to face with clients everyday. I'm a pretty straight acting guy with the odd gay tendency, so it's not completely obvious I'm gay. But lately I've found I am getting hit on more and more at work. Yeah I've pulled a couple of gay guys, but the best ones have been straight guys!!! I seem to be pulling 2-3 a week, even from clubs and bars. Has anyone else found this with straight guys? That they're more keen to ride one than us?? Haha

[Iceblink]

If they are having sex with you, a male, they are not straight. If the most masculine acting man in the world is having sex with another man, unless it some sort of being paid for services thing, he is not straight. I don't know who these guys are, and if they are attracted to only men or to both men and women so I can't tell you what their sexual orientation is, but if they are having sex with other men, I can at least eliminate one possibility.

[East]

See post #16

https://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?t=34541&page=2

[Iceblink]

I agree with you most of the time, East, but on this one I guess I really do not. We can say things, "let no one determine your sexuality" which is popular thing to say today, but I really believe that is something about not letting others determine the sexual things you should and should not do and the things you should and should not like. Like it or not, every one of us falls into one of the standard definitions of sexual orientation whether it is heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or asexual. The definitions of those words are about sexuality and the definitions do not have emotions, we have emotions about the definitions. If you have desire to have a man's penis in your ass and have no attraction to any other part of the man besides that penis in your ass, just the attraction to that penis means you have a physical attraction to a male. If you are attracted to almost exclusively to the opposite sex and your desire is to develop an emotional and romantic relationship with a person of the opposite sex, but every once in a while have sex with the same gender, that does not make you heterosexual. Our sexual orientation might be a part of what determines our romantic relationships, but our romantic relationships are not what determines our sexuality. Our sexual orientations might cause us to have certain emotions, but our emotions do not cause our sexual orientation. I know there is big "I don't like labels" push lately, but the different terms of sexual orientation have specific, accepted definitions, not definitions we want them to be and are not definitions based on how a person would like to see himself.

[LJay]

Are they hiring where you work?