09-23-2012, 08:42 AM
I being married to a woman for 15 years, and next week I am moving out,
After coming out, I feel an estrange force that can´t stop and I really need to be alone. I donât feel guilt, I donât know if I am doing the right thing, but I donât want to waste more time and she deserves to find somebody else because I no longer feel capable to keep faithful to my wife, celibacy is not an option, I´m no longer comfortable living in a 1950´s marriage and after all in the long run it would be the best for us.
I still love her (I donât know if is like a friend, something I need to discover), I love my family and I haven´t left yet and I started to miss my kids.
I suppose this is normal? After the separation what would you recommend, how to handle this, do it progressively coming more the first days and then distance the visits? honestly this is the hardest thing I ever done in my life
After coming out, I feel an estrange force that can´t stop and I really need to be alone. I donât feel guilt, I donât know if I am doing the right thing, but I donât want to waste more time and she deserves to find somebody else because I no longer feel capable to keep faithful to my wife, celibacy is not an option, I´m no longer comfortable living in a 1950´s marriage and after all in the long run it would be the best for us.
I still love her (I donât know if is like a friend, something I need to discover), I love my family and I haven´t left yet and I started to miss my kids.
I suppose this is normal? After the separation what would you recommend, how to handle this, do it progressively coming more the first days and then distance the visits? honestly this is the hardest thing I ever done in my life
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