10-21-2010, 06:11 PM
Victims of abuse are always - ALWAYS terrified that the abuse will happen again, no matter who they are with.
Your advice is overall potentially very good but some of these things might not be true for everyone...I would hesitate to use the words "always" and "never" except in relation to yourself if that is what works for you....these are the favorite words of alot of abusers frankly and I know I have worked very hard to overcome these words especially when applied to my circumstances...that is what they are...words. Always and never are usually opinions.
Your advice is overall potentially very good but some of these things might not be true for everyone...I would hesitate to use the words "always" and "never" except in relation to yourself if that is what works for you....these are the favorite words of alot of abusers frankly and I know I have worked very hard to overcome these words especially when applied to my circumstances...that is what they are...words. Always and never are usually opinions.
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