How to tell if a guy is gay/interested?

[archubbycub]

Hey Buring! I know exactly how you feel. I went through something very similar with the guy I'm with. He is my first same sex relationship and I couldn't tell if he was being overly friendly at first, or was "testing the waters" with me. And we spent A LOT of time together too (we were in a musical together at the local community theater). One of the best pieces of advice I got from here was to "flirt back" with him, which worked for me, but bear in mind each situation is different! But, just going by what you posted here, it does sound like he's at least interested in you. Have you tried talking to him directly, other than ordering a sandwich? The only other thing I can say is best of luck and keep us posted!