08-12-2012, 05:20 AM
Looking at this from a psychological stand point, having nothing to do with anyone being gay, straight or bi. You are only 20 years old. Your brain has yet to fully mature, the human brain continues to grow & develop well into your mid to late 20's. Because of this, your brain sometimes tricks you.
You feel a connection with this person on a gaming level & perhaps also you both share other things in common. Mixed with the possibility that you may feel physically attracted to him, all of these emotions can become confusing and your brain can sometimes release chemicals that give you a sense of feeling in love, more likely than not if anything what it truly is, is nothing more than infatuation or lust that you are actually feeling, because true love is still such a new emotion for someone who is only 20 years old, it is very easy to confuse other emotions with love.
This is why so many teen marriages fail and so many people under 30 find themselves stuck in a loveless marriage. Think of everyone you know over the age of 30 and then look at how many of them are still in the same relationship they were when they were 20. If you can actually think of any who are still together, look & see how many of them are still truly in love and how many of them seem miserable or unhappy with their relationship. There will always be a few who are still together & do seem happy, what happens in those situations; quite often the couple will go through a period where they grew apart, their feelings & emotions matured and they realize that perhaps what they were feeling for that person when they were under 30 was most likely not love but lust, but these people are dedicated to making their relationships work because they are too afraid of starting over again or because of other things like religion make them feel guilty if they divorce or separate, or sometime they try to make it work due to children. In these cases after a while of feeling emotionally detached from this person they then go through a period of getting to know each other all over again and then real feelings of love begin to develop for that person.
This is also another reason why people under 30 tend to go through many relationships. They are searching for true love and every time they meet someone new, they believe all these emotions they feel for that person is true love, but then just like in your situation, they then bump into someone else who they suddenly feel those same emotions for and for some reason are unable to see that they felt all the same things they do for this person with each person they have ever been in a relationship with. Each time they feel "love" for a person, the feeling is so strong that it is the only thing they can think of, all other emotions they ever felt for any other human at any point in their life, seem to be completely forgotten.
So what I am saying is that it is HIGHLY unlikely you are in love with this man, it is HIGHLY unlikely that he is feeling anything at all for you, it is HIGHLY unlikely that there is any sort of future in a relationship with this man. It would be best for you to cut all ties with this man & in no time at all you will suddenly find yourself not thinking of him any more and when you do think of him you will find it strange that you had those feelings and emotions.
You feel a connection with this person on a gaming level & perhaps also you both share other things in common. Mixed with the possibility that you may feel physically attracted to him, all of these emotions can become confusing and your brain can sometimes release chemicals that give you a sense of feeling in love, more likely than not if anything what it truly is, is nothing more than infatuation or lust that you are actually feeling, because true love is still such a new emotion for someone who is only 20 years old, it is very easy to confuse other emotions with love.
This is why so many teen marriages fail and so many people under 30 find themselves stuck in a loveless marriage. Think of everyone you know over the age of 30 and then look at how many of them are still in the same relationship they were when they were 20. If you can actually think of any who are still together, look & see how many of them are still truly in love and how many of them seem miserable or unhappy with their relationship. There will always be a few who are still together & do seem happy, what happens in those situations; quite often the couple will go through a period where they grew apart, their feelings & emotions matured and they realize that perhaps what they were feeling for that person when they were under 30 was most likely not love but lust, but these people are dedicated to making their relationships work because they are too afraid of starting over again or because of other things like religion make them feel guilty if they divorce or separate, or sometime they try to make it work due to children. In these cases after a while of feeling emotionally detached from this person they then go through a period of getting to know each other all over again and then real feelings of love begin to develop for that person.
This is also another reason why people under 30 tend to go through many relationships. They are searching for true love and every time they meet someone new, they believe all these emotions they feel for that person is true love, but then just like in your situation, they then bump into someone else who they suddenly feel those same emotions for and for some reason are unable to see that they felt all the same things they do for this person with each person they have ever been in a relationship with. Each time they feel "love" for a person, the feeling is so strong that it is the only thing they can think of, all other emotions they ever felt for any other human at any point in their life, seem to be completely forgotten.
So what I am saying is that it is HIGHLY unlikely you are in love with this man, it is HIGHLY unlikely that he is feeling anything at all for you, it is HIGHLY unlikely that there is any sort of future in a relationship with this man. It would be best for you to cut all ties with this man & in no time at all you will suddenly find yourself not thinking of him any more and when you do think of him you will find it strange that you had those feelings and emotions.
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