08-14-2012, 03:00 PM
While you've received some great advice, i'm going to go a different direction.
Ok, it's 2012 and YES, you should start circulating within the gay community (ie: pride events, gay fund raisers, parties, etc.) i DO NOT think you should run away from the fact that you're 35 and just coming out and thus, have little experience.
TRUST ME, being honest about your new life will ATTRACT men who've been where you are and/or guys who see you're "newness" as a refreshing change from guys who've been around the block a few hundred times or are ONLY looking for a sexual event.
If i were you, i'd post my profile on all the mainstream gay sites and just be honest and upfront.
Keep us up to date on your journey!
Ok, it's 2012 and YES, you should start circulating within the gay community (ie: pride events, gay fund raisers, parties, etc.) i DO NOT think you should run away from the fact that you're 35 and just coming out and thus, have little experience.
TRUST ME, being honest about your new life will ATTRACT men who've been where you are and/or guys who see you're "newness" as a refreshing change from guys who've been around the block a few hundred times or are ONLY looking for a sexual event.
If i were you, i'd post my profile on all the mainstream gay sites and just be honest and upfront.
Keep us up to date on your journey!
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