08-18-2012, 12:54 AM
Feelings are mostly irrelevant, IMO, it's how you act on them that counts. So in this case crushing on him isn't bad (other than frustrating) but acting on those feelings unethically would be.
But if it helps, try to remember that the fantasy is almost always far better than the reality (that is, beware what you wish for, you just might get it to your regret). And for many people, crushes come & go all too easily.
But if it helps, try to remember that the fantasy is almost always far better than the reality (that is, beware what you wish for, you just might get it to your regret). And for many people, crushes come & go all too easily.
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