4 months in and infidelity is here already....

[pellaz]

i was helping the partner over some cell phone issues. he had an odd reaction so when he was not looking i look at his text message log and yes he was texting some guy. We talked about the next day. A month later i found a wet condom in his murse. Again we talked about it. Told him he is 2of3 strikes out on this and he has to clean up his act sorta to speak. We dont use protection.

everyone has an opinion on this:
Rainbowmum said i was wrong in spying on him.

i have know him for 3years and this is the first time i feel unsure of things. His timing is not good in all this.