09-10-2012, 04:47 PM
First, decide what you want, need and are willing to accept in a relationship, then make that clear to your partner. If he cannot live up to that, then you and he need to make the call, either you compromise, or you separate.
Sleeping around at 4 months in - no in my book, unless it's supposed to be an open relationship, in which case it's fine. (and protection is required ALWAYS).
The biggest problem I see here is lack of communication, you've got to tell your partner what you expect, want an need. NEVER assume they can take hints or should know anything you have not told them directly. Doing that leads to misunderstandings, fights and unneeded tension between you.
Sleeping around at 4 months in - no in my book, unless it's supposed to be an open relationship, in which case it's fine. (and protection is required ALWAYS).
The biggest problem I see here is lack of communication, you've got to tell your partner what you expect, want an need. NEVER assume they can take hints or should know anything you have not told them directly. Doing that leads to misunderstandings, fights and unneeded tension between you.
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