09-11-2012, 07:50 AM
I'm a bit conservative in the dating scene. You should have laid out your boundaries, I agree with that sentiment.
However, non-disclosure is still a lie in my book. I dont think it should be your burden to ask that he be monogamous. The fact that he hasn't mentioned his side piece tells me that he knew he was wrong or else he wouldn't mind saying "hey babe, im gonna pick up some milk and sex, be right back".
If he cant see your value by now, he may not be the one for you.
However, non-disclosure is still a lie in my book. I dont think it should be your burden to ask that he be monogamous. The fact that he hasn't mentioned his side piece tells me that he knew he was wrong or else he wouldn't mind saying "hey babe, im gonna pick up some milk and sex, be right back".
If he cant see your value by now, he may not be the one for you.