09-15-2012, 11:29 AM
I haven't posted here for months and as soon as I do I find something worthy of my time!
Hank, this is just one of these things that will work its self out in time. You can apply any lable you wish, gay, bi, curous, whatever but it's just a temporary fix.
Why not simply live your life for you? If you're not hurting your self or anyone else what's the problem? So you don't want people to find out about you... sorry but that's going to happen - one day. My advice, get comfortable in your own skin and do the coming out thing. It's always one small step for gay-kind but a giant leap for the individual concerned.
You'll get a lot more responses to your post in the next few hours/days with a lot of great perspectives. That's the great thing about this place, someone will always say something that the last person hasn't thought of.
Good luck, and I hope it all works out for you!
Hank, this is just one of these things that will work its self out in time. You can apply any lable you wish, gay, bi, curous, whatever but it's just a temporary fix.
Why not simply live your life for you? If you're not hurting your self or anyone else what's the problem? So you don't want people to find out about you... sorry but that's going to happen - one day. My advice, get comfortable in your own skin and do the coming out thing. It's always one small step for gay-kind but a giant leap for the individual concerned.
You'll get a lot more responses to your post in the next few hours/days with a lot of great perspectives. That's the great thing about this place, someone will always say something that the last person hasn't thought of.
Good luck, and I hope it all works out for you!