09-16-2012, 03:58 AM
lazyboy Wrote:. The other reason is like I've already mentioned; I feel like he is only settling for me and hence don't trust him as when a hotter looking younger guy comes around he's' likely to go for them anyway. So I don't think this relationship is healthy with his behaviour and mine too of course.
After the initial advice, if any, I usually dont go farther into the relationship stuff but I have a soft spot for Aries Peeps...all my lovers have been Aries (except for the bad one:biggrin and my lifelong best friend who is a lesbian is an Aries ...so just because you are an Aries:biggrin:....You have to do something right away...
Practice not comparing yourself to anyone. This is very important. You can train yourself not to do it. You will never "win" and you are setting yourself up for heartbreak and even more insecurity....so STOP IT....
You must overcome this and there are 100 different roads that will lead you there so find the one that best fits you and work on that.
Good Luck!