09-16-2012, 04:59 PM
perhaps in a perfect world where only monogamous and open relationships exist. Just like gay and straight are not the only orientations out there, there are a lot of different relationships that cannot be defined by pre determined definitions which society have concocted. I don't think a definition can dictate what my relationship actually is. we both agreed we'd tell each other about seeing people and so if he does not tell me, then i see this as the cheating part, not the actual seeing other guys part. maybe i am not being clear enough...