Advice on Coming out

[stevenmai]

Hi, you know, I felt the same way when I tried to come out to my friend also, it was hard, but at that point, we were writing each other letter every other week, so I decided to bring this up in the letters. But I first asked her how does she feel about those so-called unaccepted love, such as May-December, homosexuality and so on, then she wrote that every kind of love is respectable, and I came out~~
Another one is when we were walking in the school and encountered a handsome guy, out of habit, I said: wow, what a handsome guy, and then she was like what? I went uh oh, but since I revealed, I pretended not aware of that and went: don't you think he's cute? and after some exchanges, she was like so you are gay? and I nod and that's it~~
I mean you can try to ask them how they feel about gay and see how they react.