09-23-2012, 08:35 PM
Damn, I wish I was using a desktop instead of my phone, so I could clarify better:
"Grow a pair" was out of context, I'm sorry. I was referring to his home life, which I'm not impressed by his parents and their mercurial idea of rules and privileges.
The only thing I will say in my defense is that I WANT to comfort him, I WANT to take care of him. I DON'T want to make this worse for him. I asked how to do that, not "why is he doing this?" It's not a fucking mystery to me, he's flat-out told me why.
And I think if dating is really as scary as I'm starting to believe, I'll just become an internet porn creep.
"Grow a pair" was out of context, I'm sorry. I was referring to his home life, which I'm not impressed by his parents and their mercurial idea of rules and privileges.
The only thing I will say in my defense is that I WANT to comfort him, I WANT to take care of him. I DON'T want to make this worse for him. I asked how to do that, not "why is he doing this?" It's not a fucking mystery to me, he's flat-out told me why.
And I think if dating is really as scary as I'm starting to believe, I'll just become an internet porn creep.