I am hopeless.plz help

[East]

@Rawr,east..first of all,a big apology for writing in text messaging style.I know you all had hard time going through my post. @rawr-you are right,about small penis thing or any other suggestions which i have recieved,i followed it for some days and then i forget.I really want 2 transform myself that is why i am writing this post.I find forum this very welcoming and I don't have to lie about myself.BY THE WAY..I SPEAK GOOD ENGLISH WITH CORRECT GRAMMAR.ITS JUST THAT I TOOK IT MORE CASUALLY.

OK...I will reprint something I wrote to someone here in 2010 on the subject...I am doing so in the hopes you can get something from it...you MUST overcome this because not accepting yourself will never lead you anywhere worth going.....

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and what else do I have to offer sexually

.....therein lies the problem..much more than the size of your penis. Insecurity can manifest itself in many forms..... your statement above is what you have to consider and change. For what it is worth...you could have the largest penis in the world and if you thought that you had alot to offer BECAUSE you had a large penis you would be equally insecure...and wrong.

I think it is really cool that you are open and honest about your insecurity so I have to say to you...you cannot change this aspect of your physical being and there will always be people who prefer large cocks and that is something else you have no control over...and you have to accept both of these things

BUT...this is not everyone nor is it the majority of people who desire large penises above everything else. If you are watching porn you are going to get a skewed view of everything. I used to joke with this porno star I worked with and asked him how they could find so many people who looked exactly alike...to me they alot look like a bunch of cows because when I look at a field of cows they pretty much all look the same to me and I cannot distinguish between them individually. Most porn is a big yawn for me.

...and my advice to you...if you feel insecure pick something that you CAN change or develop and decide that is what you are going to do. Personality is one idea...maybe try bodybuilding or running or something physical. mental or emotional that would make you feel as though you have an edge.....I can tell you from talking to tons of gay guys every night who were seeking a mate that CONFIDENCE is really sexy to alot of men...and that is just one thing...there are so many others that have nothing to do with penis size...

If you decide to overcome this insecurity you can do it...give yourself a chance.

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My apologies...I dont' usually like to give the same advice on a subject repeatedly but I think you really need to do something about this so it is worth repeating.