Moving on

[archubbycub]

Do not fear alone time. There is a lot of things you can enjoy alone. For instance, sleeping diagonally across the bed - wearing just your underpants while you watch your favorite sports team score (or lose)...

It also gives you time to explore yourself.

At this point, with a recent divorce I think you need to explore who you are as a "Gay man" That doesn't mean going out and having lots of sex - it means figuring out who you are fully and what being 'gay' means to you internally.

You will be ok.

Thanks Bowyn, and all of you! I really feel loved, and I mean that sincerely mean that. And no I'm not thinking of going out and having lots of sex. Sex with one guy is the furthest thing from my mind right now, let alone with multiple partners or sleeping with the same guy every night. Hell, I don't even really want to date right now. Maybe getting to know someone a little better and taking things slow, but my main focus right now IS finding out who I am and what it means to be gay for me. Then maybe I can start finding someone special to pass the time with.