10-16-2012, 06:17 AM
I think we all went through that to some degree. Society trains us that being gay is not okay, it's shameful, wrong and/or sinful.
Now if you are attracted to guys and, when you imagine being 90 years old and cuddled on the porch swing, it's with a man, then you might be gay
The hard part is convincing yourself that it's natural, normal and perfectly fine to be gay. No one can do that for you, we each have to learn to accept ourselves. That's easier for some than others.
Our dating pool might be smaller, but if it feels natural to you, there's no point in lying to yourself and being miserable when you could be out there meeting the right guy. You have to decide if you are gay or not and, find a way to accept your sexuality no matter what it is.
Now if you are attracted to guys and, when you imagine being 90 years old and cuddled on the porch swing, it's with a man, then you might be gay
The hard part is convincing yourself that it's natural, normal and perfectly fine to be gay. No one can do that for you, we each have to learn to accept ourselves. That's easier for some than others.
Our dating pool might be smaller, but if it feels natural to you, there's no point in lying to yourself and being miserable when you could be out there meeting the right guy. You have to decide if you are gay or not and, find a way to accept your sexuality no matter what it is.
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