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I don't know how to find my orientation.
#1
I'm a female that's always been straight but i'm really dominant in relationships and kinda wanted to always feel like they "guy". I really don't have anyone to come out to and feel like my parents wouldn't really accept it. I don't really know what to do, i just need someone to talk to.
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#2
Welcome to GS!

Would this dominance extend past the bedroom?

Lex
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#3
Hello, LovleyBlueJay and Welcome to GaySpeak. Are you just a female with a very strong will and determination? If you don't want to be with another woman, then I'd suggest you find a man who enjoys being dominated and dictated to. There are plenty of straight couples around the planet where that's the default setting, I'm sure.
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Lexington Wrote:Welcome to GS!

Would this dominance extend past the bedroom?

Lex

Yes of course but i like women and like men but i cant really choose and i've never actually dated a woman to see.
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princealbertofb Wrote:Hello, LovleyBlueJay and Welcome to GaySpeak. Are you just a female with a very strong will and determination? If you don't want to be with another woman, then I'd suggest you find a man who enjoys being dominated and dictated to. There are plenty of straight couples around the planet where that's the default setting, I'm sure.
The thing is im really starting to like women but have considered changing genders. Im stuck :confused:
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#6
I found my orientation in the closet.

lol Joking aside....

I suggest trying to go out with a woman and see how you feel after that.
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#7
Sexual orientation and gender identity are not the same thing. A transgender man or a transgender women can be attracted to men, women, or both. So you are dealing with two different issues at the same time. That you are here talking about it means you are on the way to discovering who you really are, which usually means removing those roadblocks in your mind of society trying to tell you who you are supposed to be.
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#8
does there have to be a set age when your mind decide what sexual preference you prefer ? I have never heard anybody ask that !! maybe at 20 its your time to to think about been bi/straight/gay .etc ... oonly thing I could say is try not to get stressed about it...the person who comes into your life next whether male or female maybe the one how makes to choice for you !! ..you may just fall for that person
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